I was reading a book recently and it inspired me to write an article for speak out. The book is intitled 10 Mistakes that ruin Black Women lives.
Even though on the book it say "black women" , i believe that all women of every race should take the time out and read it.
What i am going to write about is what people go by when choosing a mate.
Now most of the people out there go by the out -ward apperance and the intials behind someones name, instead of looking at the inward apperance. And just to let everyone who reads this, tru beauty is found within your self. We shouldnt judge a book by its cover. I dont want to offened anyone by this but its true. When we see a hard working guy trying to make a living , who is a decent fellow, we often times over look him.
We judge by the outer apperance instead of the inner. I can tell you this from personal experience and not just from a book that i read.
I have realized that all the "nerds" (if i may)
that we didnt want to hang out with then ( in the past) we want to be around them now. The one main reason is that they have money, they have their Ph.D or whatever degree that they went for.
Ladies, you know how we say that there isnt any good men left and that you are searching for Mr.Right. Well, before you can find that Mr.Right, you need to become that Ms.Right. What you are looking for in a man you need to have it within your self. Because just as you are searching for that Mr.Right, their is someone searching for that Ms. Right.
I hope that this didnt offend any one who read it, but i do hope that it encourages you.
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