In a pickle

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Jeanine
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-05 12:31:42
I did try to invite ppl to our house on bdayz bt evtime theres an excuse.ppl tend to invite my brother inlaw and not us.to get friends i have to wait for 3 years cuz my youngest is 10 months and kids are hectic till 4. I can play tennis, squash and aerobics where i culd meet ppl. My sons play and braai afterw. is happening the 14 nov 2009 and im nervous of the social. Maybe ill be quiet and ppl will think im boring or ill b talkative and ppl will think im too dominating. What if they think im stupid? Most ppl in this town have their friendships and dont take in newbies. We moved alot and i only attended from gr9 and i was depresd till a year after gr12.
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   Nuclear Apocalypse posted by Gumba Gumba 16 hours ago
racyandy
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-05 18:10:18
I like you, I think you are brave to share your feelings. I have a rule I TRY TO LIVE BY... What other people think about me is none of my busines... It works for me. How is your confidence? Maybe try some positive afframations. Put them on your bathroom mirror. Be yourself, I'm sure it will b fine.
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-05 18:20:10
Same the way I think about it the people who like who you really are won't think your too quite or too domineering. The o ly friends you want are the ones that naturally like where your at
Jeanine
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-14 22:13:44
After the konsert i mingled.i made some mistakes.the one mom was strugling with a present and i told her ill open it up, i dnt have nails.i hope she didnt take it up in the wrong way. I had thoughts of ppl think im a bad mom,im too skinny.so now ive done the first step,bt now how to proceed ito friendship,no idea
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