Thread Topic: help. please. now.
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jwljwljwl
Joined: Oct 20, '09
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2009-10-20 11:36:54 |
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I cut myself, and i want to tell someone close, who i trust. But there is no one who i can tell without them thinking I'm crazy or something. Andd, i dont want all my friends to find out and treat me differently. Help? |
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Unanswered Thread: So many (bad) emotions posted by FadingLights 9 minutes ago |
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Enlightened080
Joined: Oct 14, '09
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2009-10-20 13:44:00 |
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Go to your Doctor mdear, Ive been putting it of for years and now im 20 and f---ed outta my head... the younger u start the sooner u can start living but i sud take my own advice lol gud luck. Doctors tomo for me eeeek! x |
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jwljwljwl
Joined: Oct 20, '09
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2009-10-20 14:27:06 |
| but i dont want to tell a doctor [first] because then my family will get involved, and i dont want them to worry about me. | |
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jwljwljwl
Joined: Oct 20, '09
Status: New User |
2009-10-20 14:27:38 |
| but i dont want to tell a doctor [first] because then my family will get involved, and i dont want them to worry about me. | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-10-20 14:52:27 |
| Doctors have to have confidentiality, and *must* tell you that he/she is informing your parents, or anyone for that matter. | |
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jwljwljwl
Joined: Oct 20, '09
Status: New User |
2009-10-20 15:04:53 |
| but i kinda just wanna tell a friend, but i dont know who, how, or if i can REALLY trust them with such a big deal... | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-10-20 15:10:26 |
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Its alright, its understandable ;) Is there someone you feel closer to, than most others? |
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jwljwljwl
Joined: Oct 20, '09
Status: New User |
2009-10-21 02:33:35 |
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yeahh. but she wouldbt understand be she doesnt care about that kind of stuff. |
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let me try
Joined: Oct 21, '09
Status: New User |
2009-10-21 05:15:44 |
| i need the same help as you... | |
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Depressed_Emo
Joined: Nov 1, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-01 20:55:49 |
| So do I... | |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-01 21:10:30 |
| I guess try to find or make a friend like you want... I don't know how myself, it was incredible luck that I met my single trusted and caring friend. | |
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racyandy
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-02 07:48:36 |
| we may not be close but there r people here u can trust and who understand. In my experience not alot of people understand a cutters mentality and reasoning. Alot of us here do. | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-02 08:24:27 |
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Yeah, most of us look at each other in a judgement free view, thats one of the reasons ive stuck around here :) Fantasy, perhaps it wasn't luck, maybe like fate or something ;) |
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stephie
Joined: Oct 15, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-02 08:29:59 |
| doctors are confidential. I wud go 2 ur GP. ASAP... why did u cut yourself? sorry if i'm going too deep for you. I've cut myself to get rid of pain and gain control. Is it deep. Does it need stitching? I know what you mean about friends not understanding. Luckily i have a good friend who also suffers from BPD. so we understand eachother.Maybe someone you think you can't trust you really can, and they might be understnding.You need to talk to sumone. Well done for coming on here though. big hug.xx | |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-02 08:57:02 |
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Maybe it was fate, I don't know lol. I'm just so, SO happy I met you. To main thread: Definitely go see someone whether its a trusted friend or a professional, but don't go telling just anybody, you know, tell someone you know won't make things worse by getting creeped out or whatever... |
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