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elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
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2009-11-08 18:59:22 |
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Unanswered Thread: shyness is ruining my life posted by paul1984 58 minutes ago |
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elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
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2009-11-08 19:06:57 |
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she's delusional, she paranoid, she's suspicious, she's impulsive , she's a rich man's wife yet not happy.. just want some opion..can do kinda case study to explore n understand bpd more..thanks.. |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:29:07 |
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I don't want to judge her but she does seem a lil off o.O whether it is bpd or something else, i cannot tell maybe she has hidden stresses+troubles, just because you're rich doesn't mean you should be happy (although money definitely helps you be happy!) I'm glad that her husband is trying to help her, but I hope he doesn't get hurt by her. |
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elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:43:16 |
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exactly..rich doesn't mean u r happy. but my point was that usually when u r rich, u kinda have something to be happy(compared to none) but yet u still feel the emptiness. but of course, when u r rich u have diffrent kind of inevitable issues too. sorry, i was not judging her. everybody has issues and everybody does mistakes. i just wanted to share n get some opion to understand bpd.. i am sorry if i sounded to be judgemental.. thanks for your opion, fantasy |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:45:21 |
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I wasn't saying that you were judging her? I just didn't want to sound like I was being judging, lol. But it does make me a little sensitive when people say rich people ought to be happy, because my family is pretty well off and we are NOT a happy family, lol. But you weren't sounding judgemental!! that wasn't what I meant!! :( |
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elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:51:06 |
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i am sorry. i just apologized if incase i sounded judgemental. i didn't mean to say that u said i am judgemental. i am sorry for the whole confusion, fantasy. |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:52:41 |
| Neh it is my fault, I tend to go into *retard mode* quite often. Thanks for understanding :D | |
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elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-08 19:54:20 |
| same here, dear. that's how we understand each other in this forum better. | |
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Nicole
Joined: Nov 11, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-11 07:31:33 |
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I do this too, but it's never in my head, it's out loud. I always wait until alone and just a conversation with either myself or somebody I know but really isn't there talking to me, I don't know if it's just me being screwed over from my past (because the past always comes up in my self talk) or if it could just be a part of having symptomatic BPD. I hate that I do this to myself :[ |
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stephie
Joined: Oct 15, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-11 10:57:00 |
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emmm. Have you ever seem the film poor little rich girl? its a similar thing her family were rich but her mam killed herself and her dad was an alcholic. She inherited millions. Its a true story btw, She became really dillusional about her relationships and was drinking nd taking lots of differnt drugs. She was never in a steady relationship and never happy. Its is a sad film. But it just hilights that we all have problems. Rich or poor. I wouldnt like to be really rich but earn a good wage to live off and be happy. We all have a path that we can choose the right or the left. And i guess its only you in the end who can choose which path to go down. Life is a challenge and each day we have to callenging our thought process. sorry im talking crap lol! just wanted to write this. big hug. xx |
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jujupope
Joined: Nov 6, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-11 16:33:24 |
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Is not being judgemental a part of BLP? Not apologizing is also one. Are you just viewing this forum to chat with screwed-up folks like me.... |
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