Can anyone tell me whats wrong with me?

aUsername Joined: Oct 30, '09 Status: New User	2009-10-30 00:26:19
	I am male, 16, and have found my social life increasingly dismal over the last 6 or so years. I have friends but i only really trust 2 of them as actual friends because the other ones seem to have no problem talking about me behind my back/making fun of me around other people. I find myself doing rediculous things all to often and i dont know why. like ill make up stories completly just to have something interesting to say or ill try to throw in funny comments but they are never funny and it makes people avoid me. my quiz put me at very high on paranoid and that one that starts with an H, I have faked being sick many times for what i now realize was attention even though it is tough to admit it. I also lie rediculously often and have shoplifted things that i never actually used, just because i liked the positive attention my friends gave me and the feeling of accomplishment. please someone tell me what this is.
Unanswered Thread:    So many (bad) emotions posted by FadingLights 14 minutes ago
Pressing Forward Joined: Sep 16, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-10-30 04:48:56
	I think you're not connecting with yourself and therefore finding it difficult to connect with others, thus you're resorting to extreme behaviour.
malaria333 Joined: Oct 29, '09 Status: New User	2009-10-30 08:26:18
	What do you mean with "connecting with yourself" ? I dont understand, how is it to be disconnected from yourself
Pressing Forward Joined: Sep 16, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-10-30 16:23:21
	The way I connect with myself is to pay attention to what I am feeling, particulary my pain. Then I ask myself what I am needing from myself at this time. The inner child healing model is great for this. Also, using nonviolent communication (google these terms for more)with myself really has helped. The result is that I know, much of the time, what is going on for me. I feel it, I grieve it. if I can do something about the situation that caused it, I will. if I can't, I let it go.
Unanswered Thread:    What to do?! posted by Jeanine 5 hours ago
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